Be Honest but Don’t Complain
Thursday, July 30th, 2009
My Dad had a grumbling song he used to sing. He was a great tease and when we kids would get to complaining about stuff, Dad would sing this. Soon we’d be laughing and all complaints forgotten. Here’s the chorus as I remember it.
Oh, they grumble on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday,
Grumble on Thursday too.
Grumble on Friday, Saturday, Sunday
Grumble the whole week through.
I loved that song and so when I found this poem, I just could not resist sharing it with you my beloved readers!
The Grumble Family
-Author Unknown
There’s a family nobody likes to meet,
They live; it is said, on Complaining Street,
In the city of Never-are-Satisfied,
The river of Discontent beside.
They growl at that and they growl at this,
Whatever comes there is something amiss;
And whether their station be high or humble,
They are known by the name of Grumble.
The weather is always too hot or cold,
Summer and winter alike they scold;
Nothing goes right with the folks you meet
Down on that gloomy Complaining Street.
They growl at the rain and they growl at the sun,
In fact, their growling is never done.
And if everything pleased them, there isn’t a doubt
They’d growl that they’d nothing to grumble about!
But the strangest thing is that not one of the same
Can be brought to acknowledge his family name,
For never a Grumbler will own that he
Is connected with it at all, you see.
And the worst thing is that if any one stays
Among them too long he will learn their ways,
And before he dreams of the terrible jumble
He’s adopted into the family of Grumble.
So it were wisest to keep our feet
From wandering into Complaining Street;
And never to growl, whatever we do,
Lest we be mistaken for Grumblers, too.
Let us learn to walk with a smile and song,
No matter if things do sometimes go wrong,
And then, be our station high or humble,
We’ll never belong to the family of Grumble!
-The World’s Best-Loved Poems (Harper & Row, Publishers, NY) c.1927 p.156-157
What does murmuring mean? What does complaining mean? What is honesty? Do you ever excuse your complaint by saying “I’m just telling the truth. I’m just being honest!”
Let’s consider the Children of Israel for a moment. God miraculously delivered them from slavery to Egypt. He opened up the Red Sea and let them cross on dry land and this same sea swallowed up their enemies when they tried to cross the same way. Then what happened? They got hungry. They wanted food. That is normal. We all get hungry and when we do we want to eat, right? So what was wrong with them getting hungry and wanting God to feed them? (Read Exodus 16:2-3)
They didn’t have any faith in their God. They did not understand Who God really is nor did they trust Him to fulfill His Word to them. What if they had gone to Moses and asked him to inquire from God what they were to eat. They needed to know how to provide for their families. How different the story would read. But instead they began a downward spiral.
1. They got hungry.
2. They became irritated that God hadn’t already supplied the need.
3. They became angry that Moses hadn’t gotten food for them. After all it was his job wasn’t it?
4. They became depressed because they couldn’t go out and get a job and they were stuck without food.
5. They wanted to die. Wished they could go back into bondage in Egypt or just die.
How often are we like those children of Israel? We know the Bible says that “God will supply all our needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” Sometimes we become like the children of Israel and, instead of trusting God when the food isn’t on the table before the hunger pangs begin, we begin to complain. We begin to wonder why God has forgotten us. We wonder what we are supposed to do. We forget to trust and stand on the promises. Perhaps it isn’t really food that is our problem – perhaps it is a bill that we cannot pay or a healing that has been delayed. We begin to doubt and then problems begin.
One way to stop complaining is to ask God to help us develop thankful hearts. What would happen, if we did? If tears were running down our cheeks, would our heartache be healed if we told Him about our tears (He knows this but we need to express it) and then would choose to thank Him for whatever good He was going to bring to us (Romans 8:28)? God wants us to bring our problems to Him but He wants us to do it with a trusting, thankful heart. He’s a Loving Father and we can call Him Daddy.
THANKS TO GOD
Thanks to God for my Redeemer,
Thanks for all Thou dost provide,
Thanks for times now but a memory,
Thanks for Jesus by my side,
Thanks for pleasant, balmy springtime,
Thanks for dark and dreary fall,
Thanks for tears by now forgotten,
Thanks for peace within my soul,
Thanks for prayers that Thou hast answered.
Thanks for what Thou dost deny,
Thanks for storms that I have weathered,
Thanks for all Thou dost supply,
Thanks for pains, and thanks for pleasure,
Thanks for comfort in despair,
Thanks for grace that none can measure,
Thanks for love beyond compare,
Thanks for roses by the wayside,
Thanks for thorns their stems contain,
Thanks for home and thanks for fireside,
Thanks for hope, that sweet refrain,
Thanks for joy and thanks for sorrow,
Thanks for heavenly peace with Thee,
Thanks for hope in the tomorrow,
Thanks through all eternity.
‑- J. A. Hultman